GHOSTING!

2020 dating let’s face it is a bit of a train wreck! I know I sound very pessimistic! trust me I will always try and find the positive in EVERYTHING, however, dating today is different. One minute he is calling you a few times a day and texting you throughout the day and work lunch breaks, etc. All of a sudden it changes to a days without communication or you having to initiate contact. We live in an era where people can swipe left on their work lunch and have a date within minutes! Men today are not exactly short of meeting women they no longer need to go out to bars, nightclubs. If I had a penny for every time a friend said to me "It was going so well, we had a connection I see it going somewhere," then one day he suddenly disappeared! YES disappeared! You may think you are the only one being ghosted right now, well let me tell you are not. When someone ghosts their actions usually have nothing to do with you! Reasons maybe Ghosting you : Become bored of you Not ready for commitment You are the other Women Your standards are too high Insecure and intimidated Found someone connected with He thinks you’re too good for him He’s keeping his options open Ghosts, in my opinion, are cowards they do not have the guts to confront you! some ghost you when they are seeing other people, or are intimidated by you. Ghosts are emotionally unavailable cowards remember you deserve better! when people show you who they believe them!

GHOSTING!