Men Are All The Same?

"Men are all the same" I'm sure you have heard of this phrase several times or have personally believed this statement. Well, in my opinion, I do not think that Men are all the same, some women keep choosing the wrong men, yes choose them.

Some men will treat you like a princess, however, you stick with the losers! Also, have experienced growing up in toxic households, perhaps their parents behaved badly towards one another causing them pessimistic views on relationships. Additionally, I think that those with low self-esteem will not give the nice guy a chance, they prefer a bad boy, the idea of love is toxicity fighting, arguing, games they believe they are unworthy of healthy love.


I personally refuse to believe that all men are bad, it's about having your standards. No one is a 10/10 make sure that your requirements are realistic and not based on Disney fairytales, relationships are work and it takes two. I believe in taking responsibility for choosing your spouse. relationships are work and it takes two. I believe in taking responsibility for choosing your spouse.


Things Good Guys Do

  • Support you

  • Allow you to be yourself

  • Surprise you

  • Makes you feel safe

  • You feel beautiful

  • Shows you love

  • Brings out Best in you

  • Commits

  • Remain faithful

  • Believes in you


As shallow as it seems many of us have a physical type and will turn down a good guy simply because he does not fit the mould of your usual type, for example, you usually prefer a 6ft tall muscular, no other man will do. Personality types you may be attracted to men that are projects as you like to be needed, therefore if you meet a guy who is stable with no drama in his life you will become uncomfortable. Not every guy will cheat, or fear commitment, or disrespect you, or break your heart. But if you keep dating the same types of men, ignoring the red flags and thinking all men are the same, you’ll continue to find yourself single and broken-hearted. Take a chance on someone different you might just find true love.